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Are you guilty in making these 3 common mistakes when it comes to changing your life? (And an unusual solution which will take your breath away!!!)
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From: Julian Sirian (Founder of HealingbyMind.com, Meditation Teacher)
I want to tell you a little story, and be honest up front.
I hate being slow.
There you are, i've said it.
Somewhere along the line, (and I learnt this early on), I had it figured out that to be successful in life, in any endevour, you needed speed.
Speed is the essance of life. Whether it is sport, financial, being productive at work and being focused, you've got to learn to be quick.
It's not so much about being quick with your ideas, it's more about implementing them very fast. We live in very fast times…things will change very, very quickly, and often without notice.
Before I tell you the 3 common mistakes, let me quickly tell you how I got here…
When I first heard about success, way back in the mid-2000's, I heard about some of the traits about successful people. Speed was one trait. The other trait is using the power of your mind.
For me, it seemed obvious. Quite simple really…to be successful, you got to learn how to use the power of your mind. After all, your mind is the tool that will turn an image into reality, via action. You become succesfful, in whatever endevour you are in.
Yet strangely, not many people know about this.
Think of it like driving a car.
Not using the power of your mind, is kinda like being in a car without knowing how to use the gears, how to signal, and even how to use the brake properly.
The only thing you DO know is how to steer…
Not much bloody good trying to get from A to B, just knowing how to steer.
(How long do you think it will take before you crash? Trust me, not very long at all.)
Yet many people think that they can succeed without learning how to drive the car…
Good luck in that.
And like you, I've heard about the law of attraction, which really got me into visualizing.
I even bought, ‘The Secret' (tell me somebody who didn't) which I think is a great intro into the law of attraction. And I suddenly became aware for the first time ever, that for you to become successful, you had to use the power of your mind.
But it doesn't stop there… it's not just about the power of your mind, it goes beyond that.
It's actually the power of your subconscious mind.
You may have been taught wrongly on how to be happy or successful
There is a way to achieve your goals, without dealing with past emotional hurts or burdens
You can achieve most (if not all) of your full potential
Mistake 1: Not being aware of your subconscious!
Believe or not, most people don't realize that your mind is split in 3 parts: Your conscious, your subconscious and your superconscious.
Your conscious is your thinking mind. Your inner talk.
Your superconscious is your higher-self, your own divine being, your connection to, ‘oneness', where your intuition and sixth sense recede.
However, all of the magic is acually in your subconscious mind.
Your subconscious houses your beliefs, which in turn influences your behaviour and conditionings. All the good stuff happens in your subconscious. It is the gatekeeper towards your life. Start using your subconscious more consciously, and you will be able to even improve on your own intuition;-)
But before I continue, lets get something absolutely clear. Not only is the subconscious the housing estate of our beliefs and values, it also has the answer to most of your lifes problems (obviously it's not all, there are sadly some problems that are way beyond your control).
Let me give you a quick example…
Have you ever wondered why some people would say, ‘I'll sleep on it' if you asked them a difficult question, or posed a tricky problem?
What does sleeping do? Promote subconscious activity!
Your subconscious is YOU on auto-pilot (mostly). That is to say, it helps put most things on automatic gear, which includes your beliefs and conditionings.
Now this is a GOOD thing. There is so much going on in life, we need things to be a bit on auto-pilot. But if you really want to change your life, you need to, ‘update' your auto-pilot nature.
And one of the most bog-standard, easiest ways to do this, and to use your subconscious mind to your advantage, is using the power of your imagination.
Now don't get me wrong, this is not about fantasizing (I'll be the first one to admit, I have fantasized about a lot of things in my life…from being a hot spy, to becoming the next billionaire;-). Using your imaginaton is not about fantasy land).
It's using your subconscous like a directed laser. What we are talking about here is visualizing.
I'm under no illusion whatsover that you probably already know this.
That's the good news.
The not so good news? You probably don't know how to do it properly…