We hear this term splashed everywhere especially in the new age community. It is said that, ‘oneness' helps with the law of attraction, but what exactly is it?
I came across this term years ago. Having been bought up as a Roman Catholic, I viewed God as someone who demanded respect, and to be also slightly feared. I was also apparently to treat this guy like he was my friend. Needless to say, the concept of, ‘oneness' was not only a completely new outlook on life, but was also complete blasphemy. I mean, to think yourself as, ‘one' with the big guy was disillusionment of the highest order!
So I was stunned when I came across my first spiritual book, after having a low point in my life, and realised that God (or whatever name you would like to call it) wasn't what people were saying he was.
All it took was one small meditation session, and I realised that I couldn't go back to my old ways again. ‘Oneness', it seemed, was the ability to feel complete; to feel, ‘whole', to feel unconditional love…that is, to feel love with no strings attached. It was a pretty neat idea, considering that some peoples definitions of love was more of a, ‘give and take' variety.
To feel, ‘oneness' or being, ‘complete', means ultimate to transcend your EGO, that is, the thoughts you are having. It means that you go from a thinking state to a more, ‘being' state; that is, you turn yourself into a Human, ‘Being'. There a 3 steps to achieve this:
1 – To start with, imagine your ego extends to the screen that you are watching. This may sound strange, but try to pretend that the screen in front of you is also, ‘you'. If you need to close your eyes to try to imagine seeing from that view point, go ahead. Try to act like the screen that you are watching is also a part of your personality, or if that is difficult to imagine, try to think that you could, ‘float' there, as it you were in a first person shooter game, and you could float out of your body.
When done correctly, you should feel a chunk of feeling starting to move in your Heart area. Depending on what feeling you have, some people would call this unconditional love, or compassion. It may be very subtle at first, so don't be too put off if you are unable to feel it straight away.
2 – In my opinion, the first step is always the most difficulty, because you are having to extend your mind, which most people cannot do. You'll be glad to know that from now on this will get easer.
So now you have got your perception to the screen in front of you (maybe the corner of the screen, but that's fine), we are going to extend it even further! Try to imagine that, ‘you' are now not only including your screen, but also the wall behind it.
Again, if you want to loosely visualise being able to, ‘see' on a speck of the wall to the left or your right, with your eyes open or closed, that's absolutely fine. And try not to include just the wall in front of you, but also the contents in front of the wall, like the stationary, any papers you have lying around, that cup of coffee, etc. Really try and get into seeing yourself as also part of the wall and the enclosed surrounding area.
You should now feel that lump of energy around your heart area increasing in intensity, and you should also be slightly, ‘present' or mindful (this is a great way to becoming, ‘present'). If you can, try to let the feelings spread across your body, so it not only encompasses your heart, but also you lungs, back, legs and hands. Try to feel your body getting more energised by this feeling.
3 – Not we have expanded our ego to not only include the screen that we are using to read this, as well as the wall behind, we are now going to take the final step, and move our ego or perception beyond into the wild.
Again, like before, slowly move your perception to a nearby tree, or if that is too difficult for you to imagine, act as if that tree is also another arm that you possess, that you can move it with your heart, as if it was your real arm. This may sound really silly, but it is brilliantly effective and can help you really get in tune with your surroundings. Try to act like every object you see can be moved by the power of your heart, as if it is an extension to your heart.
You should now feel that energy in your heart getting stronger and more intense. You could also describe this feeling as very healing and very, ‘complete'…feels good, doesn't it;-)
What you have experienced, is what I believe many people and masters over the millennia have described. You were, at, ‘one' with your multi-verse, and in doing so, have transcended you ego in the process. You didn't, ‘need' anything, as you used the power of only your perception (and maybe a tiny bit of visualization;-).
Try to get into a small habit of doing this every day, even if it is only for about 60 seconds, and you'll find that not only will it become easier for you, you'll start to see life in a different and more accurate way.